Hello Ladies,
After a rather long day in the shop I was just scrolling through my blog in reverse and giving myself a wee pat on the back at some of the lovely clothes and enthusiasm I've produced over the last few years. When I got to the very bottom of my blog page I found this, the first thing I wrote when I was designing my Therapy blog page. I hope you'll agree that it still holds true:
Why Spending Money on Clothes is Important!
Many of us have husbands and partners who have no idea why we enjoy shopping.
When we decided on a name for our shop, I came up with Therapy. When Chris asked me what I wanted our shop to be I said that I wanted
it to be a place where women could come and relax and have a nice time,
whether they were shopping or not.
Retail Therapy. Yes it's a modern-day buzz word. But it's also
true. Shopping is therapeutic! Okay, it's still open to abuse and I have
been pretty much a shopaholic in my time. (My husband would argue that I
still am!) but everything in moderation, as they say...
So, shopping can offer some "me time" or time with girlfriends,
or time with our mum, or a boost to our confidence when we're feeling low,
or a celebration when we're feeling good.
Just as clothes say a lot about who we are and the persona we
wish to present to the world, shopping gives us a sense of hope, a pause
in our daily lives.
The best way to enjoy shopping is to do it mindfully. Like
everything, shopping should be a pleasure, whatever the reasons. Not
easy when you're up to your eyes in Sainsburys' Fruit & Veg aisle,
but definitely possible when you're mooching around a cute little
boutique with friends.
So next time your other half looks quizzical, tell him that you need a little Therapy!
Laura x
Aw, it makes me quite emotional to read this again after so many years. It reminds me of the hope and optimism that I felt all those years ago when I first happened upon our beloved Petworth and realised that I'd found my Brigadoon.
And it also reminds me that I still feel the same way, because sometimes we need reminding of the good things that we have in our life: The people we love, the home that protects us, the community that nutures us, our body that does so much for us (even though we wish it a different shape!) Yes, all the things that make our life complete and that we so often take for granted. So here's to a loving and laughter-filled festive season and a new year filled with gratitude.
Love, Laura xx